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- the day my youngest daughter found my drinking " bottom " - written march 2010



  She just asked me to bend down... she
had a secret... i bent down... " Daddy, are you
gonna die? "

Am I gonna what?

  " Are you gonna die? "

No, why do you think that?

  " Because you drink too much wine & wine has
alcohol in it... "

You know what Honey... I'll stop drinking so much... ok?

( and i sat there on my knees
  in the middle of their bedroom
  in the soft safety of their butterfly night-light
  in complete disgust of myself
 
  and i watched her nod her head
  unsure of that answer
 
  and i watched her quivering chin almost
  let out a cry

  and i did tear up
  and i thanked her for asking me

  and i did kiss them goodnight
  and stumble out

  and i did drink again for 4 more
  days... and then
  i quit )

After more than a decade of hard drinking, on & off again, Through
murderous amounts of whiskey, beer, wine, vodka... you-name-it, After bottoms that i thought i had reached on my own - realizing
now that they were only downward steps - i finally landed, there
on their floor, after nighttime prayers, And i found my bottom in the depth of a very simple, honest question from a 6-yr old child...

    This is March 1st, 2010 and
    I did not drink today {day 654}


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